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A Divorce Judge’s Thoughts On Love and Marriage – Judge Lynn Toler
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A Divorce Judge’s Thoughts On Love and Marriage – Judge Lynn Toler

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Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Judge Lynn Toler, a retired judge who hosted TV's Divorce Court for 14 seasons. Head to https://betterhelp.com/softwhiteunderbelly to get 10% off your first month of therapy with our sponsor, BetterHelp. Because no one should have to go through anything alone. BetterHelp is here, With You. #sponsored

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0:00 Judge Lynn Toler: From Harvard to Divorce Court
7:01 What Human Nature Really Looks Like
10:47 Why People Wanted More Than a Divorce Judge
14:51 Childhood, Race & Growing Up With a Bipolar Father
21:23 Marriage, Mental Illness & Choosing the Right Partner
25:30 The Biggest Lies People Tell Themselves
27:54 Why Childhood Shapes Adulthood
32:02 Personal Accountability vs. Victimhood
35:04 Love, Marriage & Choosing the Wrong Partner
39:43 How Technology Is Changing Relationships
46:30 Addiction Is About Pain, Not Drugs
47:51 Are We Becoming Emotionally Weaker?
49:29 The Divorce Court Cases She'll Never Forget
54:04 Why Marriages Fail
1:00:22 How to Build a Relationship That Lasts
1:12:10 What Every Young Person Should Learn
1:15:49 Final Thoughts

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